My No 1 : thing is to focus on friends, not to waste time on people that don’t waste time on me !! . My No 2 : stop having sex with straight / bisexual / tray, guy and find a lasting relationship in 2011 !! . My No 3 : stay under 85kg ..and do less drag and focus on the real person behind beverly buttercup … OMG …..LOL…..